Dad Thoughts

My 90/90 Split Perspective

Between diaper changes, cooking, cleaning, walking the dog, and many sleepless nights where Evelyn would only fall asleep with me, there were times where it felt like I was doing 90% of the work.  Trust me, I hear how it sounds, because it sounds dumb, selfish, and wildly unlikely. The truth is still the truth, […]

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I’m Not Ready For a Second Child

True story. It’s what the majority of people tell me. 80% of all “congratulations!” are immediately followed by unsolicited advice veiled as reality checks. Two under two!? Ha! Good luck! Well… see you never. Wait – I thought we were just celebrating? Would you let your grandma blow out her birthday candles only to remind her that […]

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